5 productive tips to add the value in your relationships.
For everyone of us our relationships means alot. They add value to our lives. If we have healthy relationships we tend be more productive and enjoy the life with full potential.
But if don't then there are more chances to prone to adverse effects of it. Such as the person who is dealing with a toxic relationship with someone might be her/his friend, boss, husband/wife, or anyone it could be,
1. his/her productivity at work place will be affected.
2. Moreover he/she can also suffer somekind of mental illnesses. In many cases it has been seen that the person who is going through some sort of mental illness have defected relationships.
3. And in most cases it has been noted that the recovery process in client's who have a family support is much better than the client's whose family members are not supportive.
So, let's get into the topic '5 productive tips to add value in your relationships'
1. Communication
Communication is an important factor in success of any relationship. If you have good communication skills you will be able to convey your message to the other in more effective way. So there is great chance for being recognized. But on the other hand if you are not able convey your words to others you will probably loose your relationships or it might effect the quality of your relationships. Ultimately it will effect on your life as well. When you are not able to convey then you might be misjudged and misunderstood.
The persons who are not much open to others they might remain behind in life whilst others who are open to express themselves might go beyond in their lives. To have communication keep these 5 thnigs in mind
5 tips to have better communication
- Try to listen to others carefully
- Give answre to their questions
- Be more open about yourself
- Always put your suggestions too if needed
- Discuss on different topics
2. Spend more time with each other
Another important factor to add value in your relationships is you have to spend more time with each other. By this you will get a chance to know more about each other. Try to share likes, dislikes and hobbies. Go for long walks, dinner or move night together. This will help you to understand and share more things. Here i am sharing 4points to spend more time with each ohter
- Go for to watch a favourite movie
- Do some activity with them like playing tennis or some sort of game
- Share same interests
4. Go for morning walks
3. Appreciation
This is an important factor to improve your relationships with others. Try to appreciate each other on good things.
1.Like if someone favours you say thank you.
2. Or if someone makes tea for you say pleasing words like ohh you know i really need this at this time.
These little words add value in your relationships and make them more healthy.You can also appreciate other on their achievements like if your friend or your partner get in award or new job post/promotion etc. Try to appreciate them with words like
1. Ohhh waow! you did a great job. or you can say.
2.well done you deserve this as yoi did a really hard work.
You really don't know the power of such words that will impact on your relationship in a positive way.
- Forgiveness
An Important key factor to improve your relationship with friends, family and others is forgiveness. That means try to forget their past mistakes and behaviours to have beautiful relations. Don't stuck on their past acts as you know that all of us have some good and some bad in our selves. We are not perfect in anyway. Everyone is prone to mistakes so never talk about their past faulty behaviours in new dispute. This thing will be more damaging for your relationships.
If you really want betterment in your life this thing will work you. Also always keep one thing in mind that never fight on small things loke why you put your towel here or why you don't clean your clothes yet. These doesn't really matter.
1.Try to say sorry if you are wrong
2. Don't complicate things by making it matter of ego
3. Always try to save your relationship not your so called proud
4. Also accept the pardon from otherone. Don't rpeat the things again this will cause dispute
5. Being apologetic doesn't means that you are wrong its means you give more value to save your relationship and your are mature one.
5. Igonre the negative
Ignore the negative side of other person if you want to strengthen your relationships. All of us have some positive and some negative aspects. So don't focus negative but try focus on positive side. By doing this you can also eliminate the negative behaviours.
1. Like if you are mother and your kid is not good in some subjects but in some subjects he is quite well. So appreciate him for them and say the words like don't worry you will be good on these subjects too with time.
Such words not only enahnce the confidence of your child but will also motivate him/her. It will also generate the feelings that you understand your child's problems.
In any type of relationship this tip will work like wonder.
2.Try to strengthen the positive behaviours with good words and eventually negative ones will be diminished with time.
You have to be more patient.
Conclusion: long story short
- to enjoy your life quality you msut have good relationships.
2. This will help you to build in positive personality and people will admire you.
3. It is also good for your mental health,
4. you will have more productive life and be more giving to your society.
5. And eventually you will grow more.
